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I find it really hard to hate anyone, or even dislike anyone. I don't know... It's like... Whatever bad thing anyone does, no one can say they've never done something 'bad.' No one can say they've never bitched about anyone, every single person I know does/has/and will continue to do so. But fuck it, seriously. People spend too much time crying and complaining because whoever said whatever behind their back. Grow up.
I'm always finding myself justifying every bad thing someone does. If I can't even understand myself, I shouldn't act like I understand another person. I don't. No one tells anyone everything, and everyone has bad things in their life.
I'm sick of caring, I mean I won't ever be able to stop caring, but whatever. One of my friends found out that her best friend had been telling other people things, but she didn't care. She's mature enough to understand everyone does it. And if your sick of people telling other people your secrets, then stop telling them in the first place. People are just finding things to complain about, when really they don't have to. Before you start bitching about someone bitching about you, think about what you said about your friend the other day. It's just something people do. If I say something about someone, it doesn't mean I don't like them. I'm just getting it out of my system. Everyone has flaws. I understand I have like 1000000 million things wrong with me, feel free to talk about them. I'm pretty sure your still going to love me if your truly my friend.
I'm not saying tell people my secrets. Everyone should have someone they can trust. But that applies to things that matter.
Okay, rant over.